Do you really think that your breakup is so unique and that your girlfriend is different than every other woman out there? Find out how emotions and romance should play into your plans to get your girlfriend back. If you\’re not doing it then some other guy will be!

Do you just want to know what to say and what to do to get your girlfriend back? Does it seem like no matter what you do that your girlfriend only grows more distant and you feel like your chance to get her back is just slipping away? If someone could just tell you what to say that would guarantee that you could get your girlfriend back you would do it in a heartbeat!

Sadly enough though, getting your girlfriend back isn\’t that generic but there is one common thing that you can say about your girlfriend and the girlfriend of some guy that has gotten back together with his ex. And the awesome part is that this one thing makes what you need to do to get your girlfriend back also very similar to what any other guy in history has done to get back together with his ex. That crucial element is that both you and the guy who did get his girlfriend back were dealing with females of the species.

Even though you might think that the fact that your girlfriend is a woman is no big deal it is also true that women, in general, are all wired the same way. They tend to think very similarly and there is little doubt that they all want the same things in life. If you break down your relationship and what went wrong and get to the core causes of the downfall of your relationship and compare notes with another guy that has gone through a breakup you will find that the reasons are pretty similar.

Then if the breakups were similar and women are similar then the things that lead to a couple getting back together will be similar also in theory and in their basic form. And what is it that causes a woman to go back on her decision to break up with a guy and change her mind? Basically it all comes down to what a woman feels. No matter how bad things might have been or what excuse your girlfriend gave for breaking up with you, if you can make her feel the same emotions that every woman craves and which were probably absent in your relationship just before the breakup then you will be successful in getting her back. Making her feel these emotions will cause her to throw her reasons for breaking up with you right out the window.

All of this is why big movie studios spend big bucks making chick flicks and why romance novels are written at a pace that simply staggers the mind. This is why women wear makeup and like to flirt with guys and also why women leave a relationship for another man or seek out other men like your girlfriend is probably doing right now or will soon be doing if you don\’t get on the stick. All of this stuff causes a woman to feel those emotions that she craves and she will flirt or read a romance novel or watch a romantic movie in order to feel those feelings. These things fulfill a need in her and if you are bound and determined to get her back then you need to be prepared and know how to flip her trigger and make her feel these emotions.

Now, don\’t go out and hire a Mariachi band to serenade her outside her bedroom window or start sending her sappy emails where you quote Shakespeare or anything else that you might think is wonderfully romantic; at least not right now. As a matter of fact, by doing these things you will actually be hurting your chances of getting your girlfriend back and just lengthen the amount of time it is going to take to get her back. Your girlfriend is already wise to stunts like this so they are not going to be effective at all and they will just make you look weak and desperate. You don\’t want it to appear that you are actually doing anything and you\’re going to have to be clever like a fox and stealthy like a cat to pull this off, but it can be done quite easily.

While it might not be easy to push your girlfriend\’s emotional hot buttons it is absolutely the easiest way to make her fall in love with you and actually want to get back together with you. Trying to talk things through or to be logical about why you broke up and what you can do to fix the problems in your relationship are only going to fall on deaf ears. Until she begins to feel something for you again you stand zero chance of getting her back. But once you make a woman feel something for you then getting her back is as easy as falling off a log.