Dating Success: How To Make Your Partner Feel Special

November 30, 2011
by Alfred Paterkinns

One of the reasons why some dating relationships don\’t prosper is because one of the partners isn\’t too romantic by the other\’s standards. To avoid these conflicts, both parties should first understand that the definition of being affectionate is inherently different between sexes. Guys for example, are firm believers that actions speak louder than words. Guys also establish deep connections by doing activities together like hanging out or playing sports. Ladies in contrast don\’t have as much difficulty in expressing their affection for their dating partners. Talking for women is not only therapeutic; it\’s a way for them to feel affirmation from their partners.

Regardless, if you want to be in a satisfying relationship you need to be more romantic. There are a number of ways on how you can show genuine affection to the person you are going out with. Texting love quotes is an example of this, and it is the most affordable and simplest way to be more romantic. If done frequently, it will make the person you\’re wooing feel extra special. Although there are plenty of websites that compile love quotes, your would-be girlfriend or boyfriend would still prefer receiving those that have a personal touch.

Not much has changed with women\’s perception of love poems – they love it. Similar to love quotes, the World Wide Web is a good source of these sugary sweet poems. Then again, those love poems which you composed on your own will be more evocative, more sincere. As an added twist, you could send segments of your love poem at different times of the day, and send in the last stanza with a bouquet of flowers or a small gift.

You can also show your appreciation and love for the person you are courting through love songs. If you have the chops and guts for it, you can have dinner in restaurants that have piano lounges and surprise your date by singing along with the pianist. Alternatively, you can just play a slow love song which you and your date can dance to.

Those who are not accustomed to being expressive of their feelings will have some difficulty in mustering the guts to do any of those aforementioned gestures. However, trying to be more romantic is a way of showing how much you really want to be with that person. Knowing how to compromise is a sign of a healthy relationship. This give and take exercise is inherent to any relationship, and situations that require such will come in more often as you develop a deeper romantic relationship, more so wedded couples. Learning how to think as a couple is no easy task, but it will ensure a lasting and satisfying relationship for the both of you.

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