Is meeting women feels like a WORK to you?

And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you’re doing you’re still not getting an inch closer to your goal?

READ ON if you answered YES those questions.

I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she’s not returning or answering your calls.

Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.

You must have the courage in the way you approach.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

You know what, the standards for men’s behavior are much higher than women.

(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)

It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you’re not “extroverted” by nature.

… I have often heard a complain about “extroversion fatigue” from a client of mine.

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would take a break and rest!

I am working hard than I was in my full time job instead of having some fun and relax in those situation. Now you see how strange it is.

I would go home absolutely dead

… from having a CONVERSATION WITH WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There’s an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!

I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)

All I can say is that I have this passion in learning those stuff (very eager for the outcome after years of sensual frustration)

I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.

I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before

If you can relate to any of this, then you are probably working too hard in your interactions with women.